I always tell JJ to live centered between the hands–you know, “on the one hand…but on the other hand…”
All through the day today I thought about what I would write in my blog when I had the opportunity.
All my family is still sleeping. I am the first one up, and I have been drinking coffee as I snuggle in my quilt visiting various websites with my laptop. I think it’s amazing that I can visit people all over the country and world while snuggled in a quilt.
This is the second of a series of posts about forgiveness. The first post in the series is here.
Forgiveness is not easy or simple. Oh, we forgive people many times every day for minor offenses, but the greater the offense, the more serious the wound, the deeper the pain we feel, and the more difficult to forgive. It can take years to forgive serious wrongs, as a person goes through the stages of grief and the steps of healing.
The administrator of a Facebook group asked the following question awhile back: The Bible promises “Truth will set you free,” right? Is it just me, or do Bible quoters and Bible Pushers seem like the most bound up, un-free people in the world?
One of the things I’ve been thinking about for several years is the thought that two seemingly opposite truths can both be true at the same time. I see it all through the Bible. For example, Jesus was God AND man. The Bible was written by men AND inspired by God. God is sovereign AND we also have freewill. God chooses us AND we also choose Him. We are to love sinners AND hate the sin. We must live in freedom AND not let our freedom become a “license to sin.”
I found out later, after I had pondered it for a year or two, that this “opposite but truth” truths is a Hebraic thing. Greek thought has “either/or” beliefs: “either” this is true “or” that is true, but not both. The Jews, however, believe that two opposite truths can both be true. They are ok with not understanding everything, and with God being “mysterious.” In some book or another (I can’t remember which one) I read that there is a Hebrew phrase that says “These, also, are the words of God” meaning that two opposite things can both be true.
I believe that if we go to an extreme of one belief to the exclusion of the other, we fall into error. For example, if a person hates sin without loving the sinner, he becomes a hateful, judgmental, self-righteous person. However, if he loves the sinner and the sin, he loses his hold on truth and righteousness. Only in standing balanced between loving the sinner AND hating the sin can a person stand firm in truth.
I believe that many centuries of debate in the church, many new denominations, many church splits, have been the result of not understanding that “these, also, are the words of God.” Does God choose us or do we choose Him? Is God a God of justice or mercy? The answer is “yes.”